These are the Guidelines we follow to make all our meetings positive, loving, and safe

Meeting Guidelines for all our meetings

The purpose of everything you say is to make the person feel loved, seen, and appreciated

1. Our exercises all allow you to speak lovingly about yourself or others.
2. We are all good enough, perfectly lovable, and well able to thrive.
3. Here, we avoid giving advice or making suggestions on how to think, feel or act differently. Advice has the tendency to make us feel inadequate and not good enough.
4. We also avoid telling ‘stories’ about the past, instead focusing on what we feel in the moment.
5. For our time together, we give our inner critical voices a vacation.
6. View everyone through the eyes of Divine Love, using Divine perception.
7. Focus only on positive qualities, and what is already good and wonderful about each person.
8. When we open up to our intuition and perception, we are able to ‘tune in’ better than we may know.
9. We cannot do it wrong – just stay positive and reinforce healthy, beautiful aspects. And if you accidentally pick up on anything that is even the slightest bit negative, like a weakness or an area to improve, don’t pay any attention to it. We are here to praise and celebrate each other.
10. When others speak, just relax, and listen – no need to ‘plan ahead’ what we will say next or to memorize everything that is said. Trust that the best words will come. This is not a mental exercise but an intuitive exploration of Divine Love.
11. Keep it fresh and intuitive – maybe a picture or metaphor comes up – feel into what the voice of love has to say. We use our intuition everyone has access to, instead of our knowledge about a person’s life.
12. The Divine Love experience can magically heal us and improve how we see and experience ourselves from ‘the top down’.

 

Specific Guidelines for tuning into the Divine Perspective

God or the Divine speaks to everyone all the time

1. We can tune into God’s or the Divine’s perspective by choice, just as we tune into our intuition about someone instead of our knowledge. Just trust, you will feel the difference in perspective.
2. If you don’t get it quite right – there is no harm done because we are only sharing very positive messages here and never give any advice. Whatever you say will nurture the person you’re giving feedback to.
3. Just try to tune into the highest perspective and grandest love. With experience you will feel more assured. You will have the experience of actually tapping into a perspective that is not your own but feels – for example – bigger.
4. Just like we can give each other very high forms of positive feedback and learn to be more intuitive around that, so can we become more tuned into God’s or the Divine’s perspective.
5. You will find that even for self-statements having the other participants lovingly witness and support you, helps tremendously to come to new insights.
6. Be playful – allow yourself to experiment and experience. You will not be accused of impersonating the Divine – because you are divine and honestly perceiving divine wisdom to the best of your ability….in the name of conveying Divine Love.